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Thanks for this article. As someone who has made this choice and suffer every single day as a result of it, I know all too well the consequences that NO ONE talks about. I am now staunchly pro life as a result, but felt differently for many years. I appreciate your honesty and willingness to look more critically at this. And I do have to say, being on the other side of this choice is never the place a woman wants to be once she’s there. It’s a horrible horrible thing, and I do strongly now believe the world would be a much better place without it. I am reminded of my own life in that way every single day.

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And this is why laws can't be based on feelings. Because I'm also on the other side of that choice, and I'm grateful I was able to make it. I believe the world is a better place when women are able to weigh up what's right for their families and have that agency. Yes, it is a horrible and fraught situation to be in, but I'm relieved I had safe and compassionate healthcare.

Which one of us is right?

Both of us, because this is how we feel and not some objective truth.

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